Abuse in the Pagan Community

I usually agonize over the posts I put up here. I spend at least a month writing, rewriting, saying “fuck it” and putting something in anyway, making sure I’m saying exactly what I mean to say, etc.
And then there are the posts that pretty much write themselves in a day or two, like this one, since I feel so strongly on the matter.
There is a *HUGE* problem with bullying and abuse in magical and pagan communities. I think we’ve all seen it, we’ve all been victim to it a time or two and we’ve all been part of it: if not as the bully, then as someone who’s enabled the bullying.